BND, In today's selfish world of "me" and me only, it doesn't take huge balls or an illness, it just takes a pair of feet. To top it all off, there is ZERO accountabilty for anything short of murder in our society. In the pursuit of self-happiness, anything goes. NAEJ, it sucks, no doubt, it seems to me that the LBS takes the worst of it in almost every situation I have read, but you have to move on and make the best life you can.