all i can say is dont make any decisions while angry. think it out.

do u really want to throw him out? are u sure u cant move past this?

it is extremely hard, but think really hard, because if he goes and in 2 days u are sorry, then what?

i would take some time to decide your course of action.

if u know for sure, in your heart, that u cannot move past an affair, and not everyone can, then u know what to do.

my point is this - everyone thinks they know what they would do, when it happens to someone else. but then it happens to you.

try to digest it all before u make any decisions.

its not easy.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09