all i can say is dont make any decisions while angry. think it out.
do u really want to throw him out? are u sure u cant move past this?
it is extremely hard, but think really hard, because if he goes and in 2 days u are sorry, then what?
i would take some time to decide your course of action.
if u know for sure, in your heart, that u cannot move past an affair, and not everyone can, then u know what to do.
my point is this - everyone thinks they know what they would do, when it happens to someone else. but then it happens to you.
try to digest it all before u make any decisions.
its not easy.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09