He insists that nothing happened and doesn't understand why I can't believe him! He gets so angry b/c I won't believe him and keeps saying that "I'm never going to forgive him, never going to stop bringing it up, and he can't live like that." He even told me to go have an affair to "level the playing field."
Listen to your heart. My H said these same exact words to me, even to encouraging me to sleep with someone else... it took months of arguments, but he finally did come clean. He was also afraid that I would never stop bringing it up, and it was an issue for awhile, because as soon as he confessed he felt better, and I was in terrible pain. That's where forgiveness comes in. And time...
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
