How Do You Forgive?

[eternaloptimist]

Let me tell you, I had an affair myself and what he's saying could have come out of my mouth.

I would bet money that they have been physical. What did the emails say? A man doesn't want to divorce his wife unless he's got extra tail lined up on the side or is lining it up. Sorry to be so blunt but really, he's lying.

Regardless of him. Report her. It's irresponsible not to do so.

It breaks my heart to hear this. I guess it's over then. I can't be with someone who could do this to me and our son.

Here is the email, word for word:

Hi, [Husband's name]. Hmmm..I'm not sure what happened there [I got her to email me with a new account.] Anyway, I will try again and hope this one goes through. I thanked you for your card/letter and wrote that I had very little time to write much. I am in that same boat now, since I need to get home. You really lifted my spirits today [he saw her in her office, supposedly] and made me feel so much better just by being with you. As I have said before, I view you as a gift. I am so grateful that you entered my life. Sometimes I feel such heartache by not being able to talk with you or be with you as much as I want to be. Sometimes this just rips my heart up. Most times, I feel lighter, brighter, happier and content when I am with you. I wish that this wasn't so complicated, but it is. I don't know how to make it easier, but I also know that I can't walk away... I will call tomorrow when I stop by the office. Much Love, [Her Name]

I think I am kicking him out tonight. The more I read this, the more I feel duped.