This is probably against DB techniques but I always disagreed with my wife about how our kids would not be affected if we divorced. I would calmly say I do not agree with that, there are far too many studies that confirm that even with amical divorces the long term effects on kids can be significant.
I also would not agree with her that it would work out rather or not we split up.
As far as remedies go, I would recommend an antidepresant to get you through this if you really need it, it is proven to help.
