In his case, OM married her. They have been married six years. So, not always is the OP using the affair partner. Sometimes yes but some of these relationships do work out.
Yeah I have a friend who was a wayward who has been married several years now and has a child with her OP. I've seen them work out, but somehow I don't think that will apply in the situation I'm looking at.
Either way - I don't intend to lose sleep over it. I hope she is happy with her life. I just want D1.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
