Well that IS some movement on his part...so you seem to know what you are doing for now.
I'm curious about the vacation thing, b/c though I understood your answer it's also probably weird to him b/c he thinks you will feel closer by going on the vacation and you are saying "chicken before the egg" etc. (Plus I like trips...) but since the trip would presumably be just the two of you...well, just thought I'd put in a vote for the trip if it's still being considered.
Interesting point about him thinking you were where he left you....VERY interesting and I need to ponder it some more. Hang in there. (( j ))
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