another newcomer - thread #2

[SavingMyMarriage]

Yeah, my C said the same thing -- not to bring up the R (only have the WAW bring it up). I just go along, try to happy, and be full of energy until she brings the R up. She brought mine up twice since I stopped talking about it (end of Mar and on 5/8).

If you read JKL's two threads, you'll see that his W is bringing up the R quite a bit. I think the frequence varies, but it also depends on how good one is at DBing. I'll admit, that detaching and other things are VERY hard for me. I'm doing a little at a time, but sometimes I feel that I'm cheating...