It certainly gets us back to those early days when we viewed each other as partners and equals. She's treating me better.
The ch 13 is kind of a tougher one for her because she doesn't want to change it (afraid of losing certain items included and/or ending up with a higher share) but she knows the current payment is too much for me. I certainly don't want to make things difficult in her life, this isn't an angry-divorce-revenge thing by any means, but if living apart is the new deal then I have to look into redoing the ch 13.
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Smiley,
I don't know huge amounts about those battles but a little. More important I've met Aussies who talked about Coral Sea. I've met talked with Finns about the winter war with Russia. I've talked with Russians about the siege of Leningrad and seen the reminders still around the city. You never forget those things.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
