Thankyou so much everyone, I would like to answer to you all, but I have to go out... The show is up and done ! And things continue to go brilliantly with bf, no major issues at all.
One thing I noticed.. the legendary forgetfullness of the WAS. So he keeps complimenting me now we are back together (he was obviously deliberately NOT doing that whilst we were apart! Its such a change).. on my underwear and my dress last night. BUT, these are things I bought LAST year when I was manically DBing him and he saw them then, including the underwear when we stayed the night 4 times last summer.
I cannot imagine, if he had gotton a new outfit last summer that I would NOW say, wow, nice outfit, as though I had never seen it before (he genuinely seemed to have not noticed). How wierd??
He doesnt seem at all depressed. He is sleeping more soundly now (when I am there!) and ML is frankly, flipping amazing. There are issues of lack of romance still,which I need to hint to him about as someone here suggested, but he did take me for a walk on the coast path last night hand in hand, which was lovely. But for now, I feel truly blessed. As M from Tennesse said on Kalnis thread, it really is just luck I think if your spouse loved you all along and decides to come back. A lottery. I was one of the lucky ones and right now, its like the past 2 years is fading away already, as though it was all just a bad dream.
