I agree that my ex was unable to sleep with me when he had made the decision to leave and whilst we were still apart, although I knew he still fancied me, he still slept on his side of the bed, those nights we shared a bed last summer. Now, he is completely different. My bf and your H are not womanisers and need to feel emotionally connected to sleep with a woman... so, I wonder if he is still not emotionally connected to you. The fact that he wont talk to you at all about what matters, or the past or even now (I presume he still hasnt answered your damn question!!!???) shows that he is still behind a very big wall.
How do you cope with the frustration of him just ignoring you every single time you ask him for a response, or his thoughts on a subject, or his answer/decision?? Have you looked him squarely in the eye and said.. do you remember our phone conversation on X day the other week? Do you remember I asked you to make a choice? Are you still deciding? How do you thikn I feel waiting X number of days for your answer?? etc.
