since the D papers aren't done yet make sure you have a clause that says all/any trips that might interfere with kids care are known to you 2wks in advance, in a way that she can't pull that giant ball of BS she just pulled on you (argh!!!! what in the world is wrong with her? you were supposed to check on her plans??? crazy!!) Think of any loophole and cover it, think of all the craziness she's putting you through and provide protection against it. And she is the one suing you for custody? she is totally insane, my prayers your way that you are able to deal with this maniac and come out winning.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
