how will he know? And if he enforces a boundary but then HE CHOOSES to yield on something, isn't it better than her taking and taking?
Just asking...of course the best interests of the kids is paramount but what happened last Saturday was NOT best for s8. FIB "contained the damage" by not going ballistic, but the REAL problem was what W created and was "allowed" to do, and I do see this as a pattern for her...guess I'd feel safer for him if there was SOMETHING in writing to go by, and if there is already then why does she break it inappropriately? She can ASK FIB for a change to the agreement and acknowledge she is asking for something on HIS day...I just don't think she believes he has or will do anything with any real enforceable rights, and my fear is she'll continue to believe that without "correction" so why can't FIB take the kids to a bd party? Oh it is HER family...but she didn't let d5 go to a bday party for a teammate? SHE does not put them first so HE has to do so and play both Mommy and daddy b/c she isn't doing her job of putting the kids first.
Just my take on it of course. And as a mom, I just think she needs a "book" of rules, so she gets that NORMAL women don't ask this way...
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