Well you've gotten some great advice and FIB, I didn't fully understand your last line until M from Tenn clarified.
There is a definite balancing act for this board. Definite. I see way too many lbsers holding onto invisible signs...and in a big way they make their situations worse...but I'm not God. Don't know the heart of your h, K but I DO know something about yours....
I can only assume you have a child related reason or a "unique to Greece" thing going as to why you are staying...and if so, we're off base telling you how to go about something different and foreign to us.
For the record, as Ian said, imho, LOTS of men can be in bed next to a woman they are attracted to, and NOT initiate sex. For many many reasons such as, Sometimes they are tired. It's called long hours at work, and IS not always a sign of infidelity or some other "weirdo" issue for the man.
But I don't want to focus on this b/c that is NOT the really big issue or rather, it is one of many in your M. I just had to comment on that blanket statement made earlier. Oh well. Enough for now.
Try to have a good evening.
((( j )))
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