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kalni.....I understand where mish is coming from. This forum is a very dangerous place. It is great in the beginning....around the time of the bomb. It opens your eyes. It helps stop the hemorrhage. It shows you some techniques to help you on your way to grow.


I agree here 100%...and I agree with Mish..I'd file..I'd file today...

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After this period of time, this forum can lead you down a bad path. It can keep you in a state of denial and holding on to a rotten apple.


I agree here also..it happens all over this board...WAS's with one foot in and one foot out the door and LBS's holding onto any thread of hope they can find..forever...and I don't see that as healthy at all..

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I believe the majority of people who make their way to 'Piecing' are those that cut their wayward spouses loose and move on without them.


and i think that's they only way.....and then you have to be damn "lucky" in order for them to come back..it's a crap shoot..