FIB, It's time for you to fully confront this, imo. Call the L, and draw your line in the sand. If not now, when? It is better to set this up and deal with it, asap, than wait and wait for numerous "violations of rules not yet written".
I defer to your L's opinion on this but I ask you, isn't it going to happen sometime anyhow? I mean your w will not "wake up", so I think you're dealing with someone who will continue to take and take and cross the line that to her, is invisible. Her anger is the most important thing to her, not her love for the children and she rationalizes things frighteningly well. So, do what you gotta do. Just my opinion and I'll support whatever you choose to do. But that's my take on it and it is worth AT LEAST a session with your L....seriously, I say pull out all the plugs NOW and put the stake through the vampire's heart so she doesn't keep rising again and again to take yet more.
This is a clear wrong, if you have anything in writing about what your days are. Do you? If not, it's definitely TIME for a written agreement and if you already have one, ENFORCE it and if that means going to court, do so now. Why wait? Why wait?
Just asking b/c maybe there's a reason for it. I just don't know what that reason is. Again, whatever you choose, we're okay.
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