Kevin,
Even IF it gets dismissed, then don't you think you ought to continue doing what you are doing that works and NOT REVERT? If it does go through, you still should stay the course, and HAVE TO anyhow, for a 100 reasons already given...

Re-read that incredibly long post that discusses how the REAL TEST of your changes will come if you do get divorced. That's the PROOF of whether these changes are real, or whether they were ALL tactical just to get her back (and IF the changes are only tactics, and IF you DID reconcile, you would then be in THIS EXACT position again in a few months, with even less of a chance for TRUE reconciliation)... Please re-read some of that b/c I cannot keep that up, if you know what I mean. It has to do some lasting good for you for it to be worth the time on my end. Plus now that you'll be gettting some counseling maybe you'll see how some of your thought patterns do not help your situation at all. They really don't.

When does your c begin?
j-

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change