Just wanted to share a thought with you. Since my H and I are also on our second separation, I try to keep reminding myself that we're here again because there is a lesson that one or both of us was suppose to learn the last time and it didn't happen. I forced the reconciliation and neither of us changed. I'm hoping we both learn the lesson that's needed this time round. Just a thought I wanted to share with you. Gotta be a reason we're in dejavu again.