Sorry to post so much today... Not doing too well since I learned of H's EA two weeks ago.

Question to ponder---How can you heal from infidelity when your spouse vacillates about whether to rebuild or divorce? This is the pergatory I'm stuck in right now.

Me 39, H 41
M 17, T 21
Son, 4
Bomb 2.09, Two EAs
Separated 8.4.09
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