How Do You Forgive?

[eternaloptimist]

Just an update... H has called me about 5 times today. I have NOT been pursuing him with any calls or emails. I'm taking this as a good sign b/c he said "I know that what I did was wrong. I know this has caused you a lot of pain and I don't like to see you in pain. I just want to make amends.."

I do believe him that he's severed all contact w/this horrible person. I thank GOD that I discovered things before they had a chance to escalate (mostly her motivation I think). She's a really sick person.

Tomorrow we are sitting down to rationally discuss all of the options. Financially, divorce is not an option. But where does that leave us?