In relation to going dark I want to try and avoid any physical contact with her.
There are two reasons for this: -
1. She knows that I still love her, she therefore dresses in a way that 'winds me up', and I find it very difficult to look at her knowing the way I feel.
2. This will help me to detach and go dark more successfully.
The problem is I have to see her when she/I drop off the children and pickup, therefore I need to think of a way to achieve this without her knowing the real reason why (1.) I cannot use an intermediatary as we do not know enough people. I was thinking of asking her to put the bags outside the front door, and leave a note or text me if she needs to tell me anything.
I do not want to show any more weakness, therefore I need to excercise the correct way to do this. Any ideas?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
