I agree with option 3 as well for what it's worth. I also think going to see your L would be the right thing to do at the moment. For the moment I think you need to go dark with her. Call her bluff. She needs to learn the consequences of her actions. Be there for the kids but not her any more. Not after that text she sent you yesterday.
I think you're bang on the money that she's like this because she's not getting her way any more. She can't continue to call the shots because she'll milk it for all it's worth. Go with option 3 and stick with it. Don't back down regardless of her spewing. Now's not the time to show any weakness. You're paying the mortgage and it's still the marital home therefore you have every right to stay there. Don't let her tell you otherwise. Keep with it.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
