My DB Coach said much the same PM. I guess I have gotten past the stage of no more hostility. Maybe it's just back to the old patience thing again to wait for a friendship to blossom. The only issue I have is the severe lack of any interaction with her to actually work on a friendship. I just don't spend enough time with her I don't think. That's why I'm thinking about suggesting this joint lunch for her birthday/father's day. Maybe it's trying to rush things though. I don't know.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.