Ring his chimes eeey.....sounds like a plan....really though i don't have much contact with him since he doesnt take S11 very much and you better believe I document everything...he thinks coming to watch son play baseball counts as a visit...are you kidding me...lol....all he does is rub his head....sry...lolol... Today is my last day at work for the summer...I have all kinds of things planned..Looking forward to cleaning out the old and creating new...
My H left the marriage a long time ago...he just forgot to tell me....went on with his life and left us behind...
In the long run I think I'll be okay....probably without H but I want happiness and I have to create that for myself...my kids and I have a long road ahead of us...we are close so we'll stick together..
Funny thing about the overnight at OW's...s11 hasn't said a word to me about any of it...if he had that much fun, he would tell me...and if he did, fine....H knows I'd be upset that he took him out to her house...so he did it...it's done, Ive said my peace and I've moved to a different day...
As for "corn Hole"...it's actually a game where you toss bean bags....it's a fun game.....
The only reason I haven't started the process of divorce is because my H receives bonus money and that is a big part of his pay...they don't consider that part of his income until he has received it for 3 years and it just changed with his company a year ago...I would be screwing myself out of alot of money if I file now...so I'll let him do it...once the time has passed I will file...30 years out the window...it will be hard, and I will always love him, even if he stopped loving me...
Is there anything I can do about him taking my son out to OW's home?...he's still married to me....and I'm the one damaging my kids...who is he kidding....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
