Game Over?

[dday101798]

t-minus 6 days.

So made my usual afterwork stop at my favorite bar & grill in the 'old town'. Went out for a "pacer smoke" and low and behold there was W in her friends car going to the store facing right at me. The way the boulevard is set up, you have to make a u-turn to get back to the grocery store on the other side of the street.

Her friend, whom I have openly blamed for guiding W to walk away honked the horn and waved. I cordially but sarcastcly waved back. W's face turned pale white and all through out the u-turn her head twisted to remain looking in my direction? Weird. Something must have transpired in the car as it took W forever to get out, then her friend left her at the store and later on when I went back out, W was carrying her groceries and walking, rubbing her eyes several times. I had offered once if she ever needed a ride, she could call upon me, but once is all the times I will make any offers to her.

This also comes in light of finding out yesterday that my child support checks I have been giving her that conveniently had "image scanning errors" are now just labeled as "withdrawls", so now I have to go to the bank and figure out what is going on with that. This weekend, she'll be getting a cashiers check for sure.

But anyway, I gave only a few moments to ponder the expression on W's face and what must have transpired and that was it, shrugged my shoulders and went on about my night. I really don't understand it, although I was having a "good hair day" and had a newer out fit on, who know's?

So went home made dinner then got a text from my new "prospect?" I don't know what to call her, not a GF, not until I clear my head of some lingering issues for certain. Anyway her and her ExH had a blow out over his truck getting re-possesed and he was blaming her for it and it got pretty nasty from what she says. He even went so far as to try chasing her down in her car on his motorcycle, what a goof. We ended up meeting at a Mcdonald's and chatting for a bit and calmed her down. Was nice to be on the supportive end for a change and it was actually appreciated.

Still perplexed by what transpired with W, but it is none of my concern at least for than half a second. She burned the bridges down to their foundations. Mine and S10's b-day is on Friday and W made no attempt to alter any part of the visitation for the day, when I asked her of it last Thursday. So, I have a dinner "date". Can't wait to see her reaction to that. from what I've seen around the boards, the WAS gets a little twitchy when the LBS moves on. And that is what I'm doing, moving on, ropes dropped, mess being cleaned up and in gear for the "high road".