WAW/Affair Exposed - Advice? #3

[DCBHM]

D1 was doing well this morning. She had her hair done up like Pebbles from the Flintstones. She was playing around but it wasn't long before I detected a smell. I ended up changing her diaper, the whole time she was going "Da da da da da" and laughing at me while she kept kicking her feet to make it more difficult to put her britches back on.

I was holding her for a bit, and when I went to leave the daycare worker said "D1 come here" and she pulled away from her and buried her face in my shoulder. She said "I guess you just want to be a daddy's girl this morning." Eventually I was able to sit D1 down and sneak out so she wouldn't cry. I saw W from a distance down the hallway, but no contact otherwise this morning.

Seriously IMO no borderline needs to be a mother- they are just not capable.

Thank you for your post. It just reinforces my belief that I'm doing the right thing in regards to custody.

I had a dream about W last night... I don't remember all of it but I believe it was a reconciliation dream... W of course was mean, spiteful, and vindictive even though I was trying very hard. Guess that is telling me that is a pipe dream...

Anyway... I spoke with my attorney yesterday evening to discuss W's deposition and strategy. I'm going to be providing him with questions to ask, and we've got a few more surprises in store. Something transpired I wasn't aware of, because he had filed the Motion to Compel Discovery without notifying me... which is fine. He was originally giving them a courtesy period of 14 days but maybe her attorney got snarky with him or something, because he seemed angry for me at this point.

He put it best: I'm the Defendant. I don't have to feel bad about anything I'm doing because W is the one who wanted this - and everything I'm requesting is so that I can defend myself properly. I told him any actions we can take from here on out to keep them busy, so long as it doesn't make me look like a jerk he has the go ahead.

If W is pregnant... well golly gee I need to request a paternity test... and oh my gosh if it turns out that the baby isn't mine I guess that means she hasn't been faithful has she?

I liked his line of reasoning. 42 days until Judgment Day. We'll see how things proceed from here.