OK for men with wives having an affair, has OM...

[pauld2100]

Yes I see...
Your right she is like someone else completly! It's been almost 3 weeks...
And that is where I am now... One thing that happened a couple days ago and I didn't think much about it. She had asked where I lived but I was pretty sure she just wanted to send my mail and I really didnt know the address by heart yet...So I didnt give it to her.
So I was going to store and there she was driving by on the main street... I think she saw me but not sure and she kept going, so I just passed it off as nothing but I was reading one of your post and you had said your H wouldnt give you his address and that had to hurt for you I'm sorry! So I thought maybe she was driving by the main street beause she didnt know my address??

Sad thing is the last time I saw her I had let a bit of frustration out and so left on a bad note and wish I hadent..As I was going she again said it's over so I just left....
As for the kids I don't know if trying to see them without her would be I good idea, It's so emostionaly draining to see them they sometimes ask If I am coming home and I have to give them the run around... I cant say anything about that to them...

I have a letter from her it was just after I left the house and back when she was still considering getting back togehter, If I can send it to you some how, I know theres a way to send masages directly but note sure how... I would like you to read it if you can, if you don't mind...

Thanks again, Your right I am detaching and being the man, I am! No matter what she says. If she doesnt notice then.....

Paul