"Love is not a surge of passion, it a choice to commit to something or someone no matter what obstacles or temptations stand in the way. And maybe making that choice again and again, day in and day out, year after year says more about love than never having a choice at all.
The funk- I choose him. All of him. But right now the choice isn't mine to make.
What keeps me going, I know he loves me more than he acknowledges even to himself. I see it in his eyes, I hear it in his voice, I feel it when he is gentle with me.
I do so wish I could slip him a mickey and make it all better. They don't have that pill on the market yet. If I could create one I would sure be rich."
Wifey! You're speakin' what I'm feelin'!!!
Like the mickey idea... maybe a big mouth Mickey? LOL
I feel your pain w/the S20. I have a D18 who is equally as motivated to do anything requiring work/responsibility, etc... But has TONS of energy for all of these grad parties, boyfriend time, and "working out..." They're precious!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
