I agree Mat. You can not make changes for another person it HAS to be for you. Beside the fact that people can tell when changes are not for real reasons.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I am trying to do 180's and not go back down cheesless tunnels soooo. This may be a little x-rated so those who do not wish to veiw need to switch channels! Doc I know your staying to watch.
Sunday morning my H and I were in the middle of some hot sex and my son showed up and ended the fun. My H joked about it all day and I figured we would finish what we started that night. Well night time comes and H just totally ignored me. I tried to get him going and he just rolled over and went to sleep. Soooo I took care of myself. H never even woke up. Last night he asks me if I wanted to finish what was started Sunday and I told him in a chipper matter of fact tone, I already took care of it and that he needn't worry about it. Well he couldn't believe what i told him and it made him so horny that we had the most awesome fun. For some reason since the beginning of the year this has backed way off and I have felt the distance in this area. So 180! have to keep this stuff up.
JAK
Last edited by JoJo's circus; 06/02/0912:53 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Has anyone watched the show Cheaters,(can't remember what channel) Well my H was telling me about a nice looking women on there who was cheating on her fiance' that got caught by the investigators for this show that her guy hired. Well she tried to deny it for a while then started talking about her BF not being able to trust. and that it was disrespectful for him to do what he did and so on... My H thought that she was such a stupid fool for saying what she did and that he couldn't beleive that she would even think that way since they had proof that she was cheating. and called her stupid and said how disrespectful she was. He actually told me this.
DUH, H is still talking to Work OW!!!! after Iv'e told him I don't want him to, and as of last August still sending her b-day cards, pretty much as disrespectful ya think.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I wonder sometimes if H is going through some depression/withdraw. I don't want to slow that process down if that is what it is so I have kept my mouth shut. He is quiet a lot seems to have distanced himself somewhat. I do just hope he is working on this and that he may be nearing the end. Time will tell but, I am not going to go on like this to much longer. I need things which will be brought up at the right time.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Had a pretty good week end. Went camping and believe it or not it was only the 2 of us. Can't believe one of the kids didn't show up for the day. H was pretty good. Yesterday he started distancing a bit but we were both tired too. I relly am starting to think he may be going through some withdraw/depression. Im'e staying quiet.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Have good days and then something hits her and she withdrawls. Going on today as far as I can see. We had a great weekend and today she's being distant.
Just wanted to say I know what you're going through and I understand how difficult it is.
H4U.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
H was kind of a jerk last night. I got home from my second job and he was snotty acting asking me if I did this and that. I told him I had then sat there for a couple of minutes talking and asking how his day was(trying to forge a convo) and he pretty much ignored me or made one word answers(he seems to do this often). Sooo I got up and left the room and after about 15 minutes he came looking for me and talking up a storm. WTH. I swear he does this just to keep me off balance. Doesn't know wat he wants but doesn't want to give me up either.
On a better note about me! I am running for Town Clerk in our Township as I am sick of listening to everyone whine because she is never there her posted hours(which is true)so I am doing something about it. I guess alot of people are very happy that I am so wish me luck! I must be some what poular as people have called me to sign my petitions for my party line.
JAK
Last edited by JoJo's circus; 06/09/0906:56 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
WTH. 