Thanks all. She cornered me again for a talk last night. I went over to put the kids to bed (which I do every Monday night). I had an awesome time with my kids. We kind of made up a game involving running in circles and pretending to be different animals (yeah that's right, that's how I roll). I really just wanted to leave after I put the kids to bed because it was so much fun and I just really wanted to leave it at that. But she was determined. So we sat down and she brought up a ll these real stretcher type points, mostly about crazy things my 4 year old has said and he thoughts on which member of my family is corrupting her mind one way or another. Then finally she got to the point which was to warn me that once the divorce is final I need to avoid my tendency to date "under-dog type crazy girls." She said I need to avoid this so that I don't have to go through this again. At one point she said "neither of us wants to try to rescue this marriage right?" I said nothing, just said I was focused on being a good dad and getting my life in order. Then she told me how she had met her boyfriend's daughter and how great that was going.
Anyway I plan to stay the course. I still love my wife, but at this point I am shocked by how much responsibility I took for this early on. Thank you all for the advice and support.
