Emotional affair wife won't admit

[Jman]

Fighthing fit, this is so confusing..you see this guy she is talking too she has known a long time. She has always had guy friends prior to our relationship and throughout our relationship. It is possible that something happened at one point but know she is talking to him for support. This does not make it any better because she is not communicating with me and trying to make things better with me. This is where my confusion comes in. So he may not be pursuing her anymore and waiting to fall on his face to screw up..This is the dilema I am thinking now...