3) You stay until Nov - but you suggest that the kids stay with you at the family home. Wife can have them three times a week or whatever arrangment. That way kids still get to stay in family home and you get more time bonding with them. Wife can stay at in-laws. If she is the one leaving you, then she should leave the family home, not you. You play hardball but she sees you as more of a powerful figure and not a pushover. RESPECT.
Hi PM,
Thank you for responding. For me, option 3 is the most pertinent option, though when I get a job I will not be able to have the children as I would want. The only reason I would go with this option is the RESPECT aspect. I just feel I should not have to leave the marital home until the end off November. My concern though is the effect this option would have on our R.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
