Just to let you know that I understand where you are. I am not even legally separated less divorced but my H has a huge amount of anger and resentment towards me. I have no contact with him and this does not move him to contact me. Yes, my H cheated and left and wants no contact too. There is no choice but for us to stand up with our dignity and our hope for the future and keep moving forward everyday, small step by small step. I am not sure whether my H is in MLC or WAS but either way he is not there at the moment and I need to try to live my life well. Its just a post really to say that you are not alone, I understand and please try to stay strong and full of hope for what can be in the future. For you and your son.
Please take care of yourself and keep posting. there are so many people here who are wonderful, offering and sharing there care and experience.
