Maybe it was good for him to see his w in a more realistic light if that is what happened. Definitely hoping for the best with the gf...
sometimes being an LBSer is a real handicap in meeting and dating and going forward b/c we don't trust our judgment or perceptions...and we know no matter what we think/thought we had, we can be wrong.
Of course if I were a WAS and then started to look inward and knew what I had ruined, that would actually suck more. But that assumes looking inward, doesn't it?
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016