Would it ever be appropriate to invite W over for a family game night with me and the kids? My guess is probably not anytime soon, but I though I would get an opinion on the issue. I could make a dip and chips and us play dominos or something like that for the evening.
Is that to much pressure to soon? Is that pursuing?
I AM BAFFLED & SPEECHLESS THAT YOU HAVE TO ASK US THIS QUESTION...OF COURSE IT IS TOO SOON...OMG!! YOU MAY GET SERVED DIVORCE PAPERS THIS WEEK KEVIN, DID YOU FORGET THAT? WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD???
Tomorrow night we will both be at D11's awards ceremony. Maybe it is to soon. She hasn't invited me to anything yet. I guess I am thinking it would be a fun way for all of us to spend a few hours together. WELL YOU ARE PRESSURING AND PURSUING JUST AS SHE BEGAN TO RELAX A BIT AROUND YOU SO IF YOU BLOW THIS NOW, CONSIDER HER "FORCED" TO BE UNKIND TO YOU B/C YOU CANNOT HANDLE COURTESY OR ANY WARMTH FROM HER WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS...YOUR TIMELINE IS THE TIME LINE OF A LITTLE BOY and that is a HUGE problem for you. Did you get meds today b/c you are having so much trouble coping without her? YES...Are you finally going to see a c b/c you are not snapping out of a major depressive episode and excessive neediness? YES....so now that you are scraping by in your life and holding onto a temporary job and signed a lease and finally seem to be getting back on your feet and your stbxw throws you some scraps of decency. you want to erase all that and again second guess yourself to UNDO all that you have done and prove yourself just as needy and clingy as ever AND THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED NOTHING AT ALL FROM THIS EXPERIENCE EXCEPT THAT YOU OFFER HER NOTHING B/C YOU CANNOT EXIST WITHOUT HER...AND ALL THIS "STUFF" ABOUT CHANGE IS IN FACT JUST TACTICS ON YOUR PART....OMG... DID YOU JUST READ YOUR OWN WORDS ABOUT "GUESSING IT'S TOO SOON" AND THE NEXT PARAGRAPH YOU WANT TO INVITE HER THIS WEEK?????
WTH?? WTH?? WTH?? SURE, GO AHEAD AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL AGAIN IN CASE SHE FORGOT, AND TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU NEED HER AND HOW YOU WANT HER AND CAN'T BE HAPPY WITHOUT HER AND ALL THAT B/C IT WORKED SO SO WELL BEFORE AND BECAUSE IT IS SOOO ATTRACTIVE BUT I BET DOING THE VERY SAME THING THAT FAILED YOU SO BADLY ALL THE OTHER TIMES--..I'M SURE IT WILL WORK GREAT NOW...[color:#990000] [color:#000099]EXCEPT THAT THE ONE AND ONLY TIME SHE HAS TREATED YOU DECENTLY --YOU WANT TO REVERSE YOURSELF AGAIN AND GO BACK TO WHAT YOU KNOW DOES NOT WORK?? WTH?? OMG...unbelievable...please see the C asap and give the meds time before you act on any of these horrible moves...I'm SO BUMMED![/color] WTH??? [/color]
Kevin
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
