When you "appear" to be moving on w/your life and not begging, pleading, crying, whining being clingy, etc., the more likely they will have some contact w/you.
Snodderly I quit doing those things 2 months or so ago, but no improvement from him on the contact. He still does not ask about me or call me or anything. So I am just going on with my life. Confused but moving forward. I will NEVER understand the one thing out of this, and that is the ANGER HE has toward ME?!? Dont understand it. He cheated, he left, but HE doesnt want contact with ME.
