Snodderly, so you are saying MLC and WAS acts the same way? Is their any stories on here about WAS returning?
BH and Snodderly, it matters because MLC is an illness. And it seems chances are better for returning if it is MLC. I guess thats what I am thinking. If he is a WAH than chances are he wont EVER be back, right? Right now, I dont know whether to date in the future, if anyone comes my way, or not. I want my family back sooo bad. I am sure you all understand.
Snodderly I will try to pick this book up at my library tomorrow.
Snodderly my xh has soooo many of the traits of MLC. He has done a complete 180. And in the beginning you even thought he was so much a MLC. You are right, he isnt confused about what he wants today. He doesnt want me in his life, and if he does want me just a tad, he is letting the gf stop him. This shows weakness to me. He has given up his whole life style for her. Thats why I was leaning toward MLC. Snodderly, or whomever wants to answer this. Why do you think his new relationship with new gf is so much different. Why do you think he is letting her control him and his life? When we first married he told me the first night we met that he was going to marry me and we fell in love. He loved me very much, but didnt let me control him. Everybody said he loved me very much and that he would never cheat on me. My point is, I know he loved me, but yet he didnt give up what he loved for me. (BUT I didnt ask him to either.), the thing is, this girl had to GROW on him he said and now he has become suddenly obsessed with her after their last breakup. If its not MLC than what is he doing this for?
