Thanks Jeff!

Things that keep me going are my kids, my siblings,my friends,this board, my counsellor, my self care and my tranquillisers!

Sadly on dropping the rope, H throws more crap to try to get me wound up.

So he won`t even small talk about the kids at this stage. He`s pulling back from them more than ever. He`s leaing bills unpaid and says I can pay them-even though I`m paying more than my fair share already.

Our electricity may get cut off today-got a final demand letter last week. He has always paid that-he set up who should pay what right from the begining and its in his name so I`m dropping that one too.

Just trying to rise me. It`ll affect his credit rating as its in his name.

More of his madness.

BTW how to you make the link thingy(its red) for your thread?