Hey all. It has been a while since I have been here. Thought I'd update everyone on some happenings. So here we go...
- went to Phoenix with S14 and a friend of his for a week - had a blast! Even saw the D'backs win a ball game.
- no closer really on settlement of things with W
- while away, W was fired from her job after less than 3 months - performance issues and it was a job in a field that she has > 15 years of experience in - should be really good for settlement talks.
- heard that W has a new house and the thought among me and friends is that her parents bought it for her, if it is fact true.
- D17 has told a couple of her friends that she will likely spend more time with her mom than me.
I am ok. The trip was FANTASTIC, started playing ball (cracked a homer, triple and single in my first double header) and start ball hockey tomorrow.
This could be a crazy week with the sitch but I cannot worry about that. Have started reading the "Power of Now" - am on page 28 and can relate to few things already. Anybody else read that?
Haven't been here much lately but hope to catch up on my buds as soon as I can.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
- D17 has told a couple of her friends that she will likely spend more time with her mom than me.
And I bet she's totally depressed about that. I don't see why that would be the case though. Your wife clearly is unstable, and doesn't her firing kind of back that up????
Isn't it weird how some Ds seem to happen so quickly, too quickly, and then yours (and mine) and others drag on it seems like forever.
Are you just 100% rope dropped ready to get this over with. Has your wife changed at all or still the same?
It's so good to hear from you, Randy. Are you feeling any different about the D? I'm feeling ready now (I think). Karen
W has not changed one little bit. I guess I shouldn't totally say that. There are now friends of D17 referring to her as the "ultimate bit*h" which is different...
I am ready for something to change. Either get on with this and accept a reasonable fair settlement OR ... well or what I am not sure. I have had enough! I am trying to avoid having a judge figure things but she is SOOOOOOOOOO entitled (in her mind) that she is NOT AT ALL REASONABLE! (sorry for the yelling )
We will see... we will see...
Last edited by lost_in_space; 06/02/0904:09 AM.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Attny still advises to stay the course. I am getting tired of the "course". Have to maintain my above board attitude and let her swallow herself up, but I am running out of steam..
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Learned tonight (via D16 friends' moms) that W and one of the EGF have somehow convinced D16 that the affair was "just a romantic love story that was destiny". D16 explained the issues here that way to her friends.
Lost, sorry but I just had to address this. She actually TOLD your D16 this? If you ever get the chance to bring this up in conversation, whether with NAB (the possibilities are endless with this one ) or DD, you may want to point out that very few "Romantic Love Stories" hurt this many people for this long. The last time I checked, most fairytails didn't start out this way.
If the shark says stay the course, then stay the course. I know its hard and you have been through so much, but there is light at the end of the tunnel and you will come out the other side somehow better for it.
((((Hugs)))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
(((S&S))) good to hear from you. That is a conversation that will happen. I totally agree. Thanks for the encouragement. Think Teflon - right? Maybe it is a fairy tale - Shrek - and I married Fiona????????? Have to try and keep a sense of humor!
Pup - I have mentioned this very thing to my lawyer today for his consideration. I am also reading up on it to more familiarize myself with this. I agree - Somehow we will persevere!
Last edited by lost_in_space; 06/03/0903:45 AM.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Hey all. Just stopping by to let everyone know I am still dealing with the crap. Some snippets of "fun" that have happened lately:
- D16 ordering 2 grade 12 grad shirts for next year. I gave her $ for one and she forgot to get $ for the other. I have heard the order is being held up because she hasn't paid yet. When she was asked for the $ she said she had to wait until her dad was back in the house. When she was asked why she didn't get $ from her mom, she said she couldn't (or wouldn't - can't recall) ask her mom.
- back in house for 4 days with kids... to find dirty dishes in sink, floor a mess, broken shower, no food, missing TV and DVD player - and sewing machine!
- L has not received any response from her side to my last proposal - been 4 weeks - and she is he one accusing me of stalling.
Same old... same old.
Playing ball and ball hockey. Still haven't won a game in ball hockey (0 - 7) but we are he oldest team by far and are having a BLAST!
Take care all - back sooner next time!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
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