Wow! That is great! You sound like you remained in control of the convo...let her say the things that she needed to say, listened, and didn't over react to anything! Good for you! I would say you have alot to be hopeful for and that especially since she said "even if we reconcile, there are a few things that need to be done..." Wow! I am going to go back over your last threads now and see how you got to where you are now!! Congrats on the progress. Keep your cool and don't get overly enthusiastic. (that is what DR says at least!!!)