We had our MC appointment today and all he (H) wanted to talk about was how to proceed with the seperation. H was ac mechanical and detached it was ridiculous. I found myself being really mean just to try and get a rise out of him. This wasn't intentional, I swear, I was just going off on him and I think that's why. Obviously this doesn't help the cause, but I was getting quite frusterated that he was just sitting there, unable to look at me and talking in a monotone. I wanted to shake him and say "where the h*ll is my husband and what have you done to him?" H was acting like a total stranger.
The MC spoke to me alone at the end per my request. She says that again, this has to do with his past, and things are happening that trigger him. God, I just want to go rub that in his face right now, but no, instead I am sitting here nicely typing to you.
Me: 36 H: 34 M: 1 yr T: 2 yrs D: filed by H 5/21/09, served 06/08/09, first court date for "maintenance" as well as a plea to restart Marriage Counseling and attend a Marriage workshop 8/24