Again, you have to settle yourself down, and look at this thing rationally, this wednesday act in a calm manner and validate anything he says. And remember it may not be the truth from him, so take it all with a grain of salt and then see if his actions back up with what he says.
You will get nowhere until you check your emotions. With the way you write and explain things you are driving me away a little, hopefully you are just venting, do you know what I am saying?