2inlimbo,

Don't get too hard on yourself. Even the strongest DB'er has a rough day. And, there isn't a perfect game plan. It will get better as time goes on.

Yes to PMA, yes to act as if, but with less focus on him, what he will do or say. Only ask questions when he appears to want to communicate, otherwise give him space.

Take it day by day. The only way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.