First off I think I have supported Maria here and elsewhere for longer than you know. If you are close to her please feel free to ask her. I have always tried to take her husband's point of view in our discussions together. However, for you to tell me what my job is and what I should or should not be saying and furthermore to insinuate that I think like a college kid borders disrespect and reaks of arrogance, my friend. I will stop here because I refuse to stoop to your level. I have never knowingly disrespected anyone here or anywhere else for that matter by reducing myself to calling other people's opinions "bullshit".
In the meantime Ian, why don't you enlighten us on some of the possible reasons why a man who is trying to reconcile (for the last 7 months) with a woman he claims to love can not show his affection physically or otherwise. Continues to ignore his wife's requests. Seemingly cares more about his two jobs than his family. Calls her very seldomly and is not in tune with her financial needs and that of their children? Is that enough "how could he crap" for you? Because I have more.