Can't stay too long, very tired but caught your post. I just want to say that anything is possible. Been there with an A H who is back and sober. Here is what I wanted to say, what I learned from my H's sobriety is that the A makes it impossible for the mind to function so one is not thinking. When they are not drinking, some recriminations but mostly the focus is on how and when they can start drinking today. The hard part about facing what they do to others while drinking, comes with some sobriety, and then they can deal with it. Sorry for your sitch. Will offer help if needed - certainly support.
