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Sorry about your Hospital visit
you are OK? Was the pain emotional?

I would tell your mom to avoid any further contact with you H
I beleive this is devastating to our mothers as well as us
I believe our WAS/MLCERS have a way to shutdown their emotions from us and the pain they are causing
MY mother died last year. MY XH and her had a very nice R for many yeras
he never went to see her or call her
he also had NO concern for me while she was sick and dying
he never asked about her or cared if I needed to visit her
he only worried about his time schedule
they become very self focused
they Lie
rewrite history
spend everything. available and credit
they are not the same
try to not take anything he says as truth
he is just confused
they cant really be there for us right now
its about him and not you
keep going
it will be easier soon
the pain will ease up--trust and for now just feel it
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow