Carlos,

THANKS. I needed to read that. The wasted energy concept makes a lot of sense...why focus on things you can't control?

Thanks again Carlos. I believe our respective situations put us through a refining fire which will ultimately make us better people...wasted energy turned into positive energy.

JR09

Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11