Well, sounds like you are in a better place tonight.
I am in a crap mood. Dealing with a WAS is sometimes like dealing with a small child.....it takes so much patience!!They can be selfish just like small children. Me want and me get now......forget about you.Me no want to play with you any more....gonna take my toys and move to another room. Nah nah nah nah nah nah!!
You say "But the rules of the Marriage Game say you can't quit just like that". They say, " Why? I just never liked you, so there (sticking tongue out)! I'm making my own rules from now if I want to."
Isn't this how they behave?
Sheesh! I gotta go read something uplifting to get myself out of this funk.