I hear what you are saying Puppy and need to be better prepared for these conversations. Today things with W are actually going pretty smoothly. This morning she offered to take D3 to school which she didn't have to do and doesn't do that often. I told her thanks and hoped she had a good day. She called me about 1/2 an hour before she had to go to work this afternoon and told me about some stuff she had bought D3 at the store. Then told me she had cleaned off the deck and was borrowing our neighbors pressure washer on Wednesday (her day off) and was going to clean it. She talked about getting some more plants on Wed. to go on the deck and I suggested that she may want to keep D3 out of school that day since she loves to help plant things right now. W thought that was a pretty good idea. Then she told me some about her new job and how she liked it so much better there than the last job and told me her schedule for the rest of the week and what her plans were. Was actually a pretty nice conversation and the most we have talked in days. The last argument was on Saturday night and led to her expressing her desire again to move out to figure her stuff out. I told her I could understand her feeling that way and if that's what she felt she needed to do then we could make that work. Then yesterday we didn't talk at all. Now today nice friendly conversation and she's doing stuff at the house that two days ago she was wanting to move out of. Don't quite get it but I do like it. I was very upbeat and friendly with her on the phone and told her thanks for doing all that stuff.


Me: 38
Her: 28
D3
Married: Oct. 2005
Bomb: Jan. 2009

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1776293#Post1776293