Don't snoop BBJ... cheeseless.... If you need to know then ask him. Simple enough.
I question the joining you to disney however. He wants to be there for your childs first trip... tough [censored].... let him make his own arrangements then. Quit catering to him, he is not committed, he is still deceptive, and what the hell is taking him so long to see the pastor?
He needs to at the very least pay for half the trip if he is going.... you should not bare the brunt of the finances on this.
